Don’t Just Stay Together for the Kids
Even with constant fighting and sleepless nights, married couples often avoid “the D-word.”. After all, the idea behind marriage is till death do you part, a final commitment to another person to stay with them through the good and bad, so it is common for people to feel like a divorce is a failure of…
Read MoreCan You Keep Your Lottery Winnings Hidden from Your Spouse?
Winning the lottery is a dream many of us share, and for good reason! We fantasize about receiving enough money to not only pay off all debts, bills, and mortgages, but to live glamorously and luxuriously as well. How many times on a Monday morning have you imagined scratching that winning ticket and leaving your…
Read MoreChild Support Obligations When You Didn’t Know You Had a Child
A recent post on the online forum Reddit highlighted a rare, but fascinating, legal and personal conundrum for one father. The anonymous dad – we can call him “Joe” – posted on Reddit asking for advice after his ex-girlfriend “Jane” contacted him after years of no contact to inform him he was not only the…
Read MoreChild Support and Custody Considerations for a Special Needs Child
Custody and support issues can be complicated to sort out in any typical divorce. When you and your spouse have a child with special needs, however, these matters become even more complex. Who makes decisions about visitation, healthcare, and education? Does one parent have more resources to care for the child? Is the child physically…
Read MoreCan a Child Refuse Visitation with a Parent?
During a separation or divorce when children are involved, parents determine a custody agreement. Sometimes they figure out that arrangement together, and sometimes the court develops that arrangement for them. Either way, that custody agreement is always made in the best interests of the child. We know that parents who do not cooperate with child…
Read MoreHow Do I Support My Friend Who Is Going Through a Divorce?
When a friend is going through a divorce, it can be hard to watch. Not only is it often a stressful time, but an expensive one. They’re dealing with a separation of their spouse and possibly their children, depending on who gets custody. It may be difficult to know exactly how to show your support…
Read MoreWhy Should I Give Divorce Mediation a Chance?
Getting a divorce is a stressful time in anyone’s life, even when you’re on good terms with the person from which you’re separating. There’s the hassle of dividing assets, of finding a new home, dealing with child custody, not to mention the legal fees of going to court. However, there is an alternate way of…
Read MoreDivorce Across Generations – What Does it Look Like, Then and Now?
It’s no secret that there are vast differences between Millennials and Baby Boomers. Everything from style to opinions to where they eat for brunch vary a great deal. It might be expected that the way Millennials date, marry, and divorce are very different from Boomers as well; but why? Is it because Millennials are as…
Read MoreWhy Is it Important to Get a Premarital Agreement?
When we’re getting married, especially when we’re deeply in love, we might not think that a premarital agreement is necessary. We cannot imagine we might one day not be in love with this person we’re marrying – that we might wish to separate or divorce them. Unfortunately, that’s the truth of the matter for many…
Read MoreMy Child Needs More Financial Support. What Can I Do?
You may be a divorcee that shares custody of your children with your spouse. Even though the divorce has been difficult at times, you and your ex-spouse have done a great job putting the children’s needs first, and both of you have borne the financial burdens with equanimity and equality. However, with the current pandemic,…
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